Master Mind : Knowing Yourself

When we were young, things are simple. It's either good or bad, yes or no. It's either Black or White. There is no "But".

As we get older, life becomes complicated. Sometime things doesn't make sense. It's neither good nor bad, yes nor no. Sometime there is no clear sign, no clear status. We can't really tell whether we are winning or losing.  We call this "Grey Area"




You don't need to worry about Black & White as you can see clearly where you stand. When you lose,you know that you lost. So all you have to do is find out how to win. When you win, well it's simple; you just need to do it again.

We need to be really careful Gray Area. Unlike , B&W , it makes us lost our sense of direction. We don't know where we are and where we should be going. We start losing our sense of alert in that situation. We assume things are not in rush anymore because anyone around us doing the same thing; just wandering around. We start feeling relax. You can also call it "Comfort Zone". The name doesn't matter . The thing is you need to get out of that zone ASAP because it will not get you anywhere. Some people spend the rest of their lives in that zone. This all start when we don't want to go extreme, or when we don't want to stand out from the crowd. Our worries and safety put us in that zone. You need to put yourself at risk to get out of there.

I'm not saying you have to be extreme all the time. You don't need to take risk all the time. You don't need to say "Yes" or "No" to every situation. You can go with the flow but as soon as you get what you want or where you want, GET OUT OF THE FLOW .